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Body Shaming! WHY?

BODY SHAMING! WHY? Firstly what is body shaming. Let me define it briefly for those who don’t know what body shaming really is. Body shaming is make fun of anyone’s appearance or humiliating anyone based on their physicality. Why is it practised? I have an answer to this question. We do body shaming just for fun. Ever since our childhood we give our friends or classmates a title corresponding to their colour or shape. Body shammers think it is entertainment but sorry it isn’t. I have been a victim of being body shammed a lot of times just for having a dark complexion and you know what I used to do I used to feel so bad thinking about why that person called me so and I used to wish to get a fairer skin but now tables have turned I am proud of my complexion. See we can’t choose our body, if everyone had an opportunity to choose then obviously all of us would have chosen a fairer and muscular sort of a body but now I understood that “It does not matt...

HOW TO ENJOY YOUR OWN COMPANY?

HOW TO ENJOY YOUR OWN COMPANY? This is something that I wanted to write for the longest time. So, how to enjoy your own company? Follow the following steps:- 1) Get rid of misconceptions - When first you will try to hang all by yourself only doubts you will have in your mind will be things that we were always told ever since our childhood like who goes for watching a movie alone? Or who goes to eat alone? You are considered weird or mad when you do things alone because the socially believed protocol is to be with friends or family. It is something that everyone prefers but it is not something that should be done. These all are just misconceptions that you always need someone to accompany you or to be a partner in crime. I think this happens almost with most of us because we are so used to be with someone that we think that we always need someone to make you happy. It is a massive misconception that you always need someone to be with yo...

CRYING IS IMPORTANT

Many people perceive crying as weakness. In fact we Indians say that boys don’t cry and if you are a boy and you are seen crying then your character is questioned and you are judged for lifetime. Apparently, this is a big mistake because confronting your emotions gives a lot of strength even though it’s a type of vulnerability. If you feel like crying then don’t hold back because: 1) Crying cleanses your eyes- tears lubricate your eyeball and eyelid which helps to see well. 2) Crying fights cold- tears helps to fight disease causing pathogens. 3) Emotional tears eliminates toxins These are some scientific reasons stating the importance of shedding tears. But what I think is that crying is amazing. I think we underestimate the power of producing tears. We are told that emotionally strong people d...

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