How to solve the
biggest problem with
Cyber bullying?
Cyber bullying
is an activity of bullying or harassing via gadgets like phones, laptops etc. It
is also known as online bullying. It can occur through SMS, Snapchat ,Facebook ,Instagram,comments on YouTube, in multi-user games any digital
platform where multiple people are active and can share content. It not just
includes sharing negative comments or messages but also leaking personal information
on a public platform resulting into embarrassment and humiliation.
Some of them
leads to criminal behavior.
Since we all
know that this is the era of social media which is such a big platform a
digital forum where we can comment or post our photos and videos which might be
personal and can be viewed by strangers or colleagues. This kind of makes a
permanent impression on your social media image or so called “ONLINE REPUTATION”.
These days a
lot of companies do make sure to search the history of the individuals before
recruiting them. So, please be sure about what you share online.
Not just for
those adults this is something that has increased in teenagers hence they
should know there limit of uploading or sharing content on such a big public
space.
These days
when I go through the comments under any YouTube video or any Instagram or Facebook
post I feel ashamed of not having the authority to answer them. I know they are
not writing all these things to me but then they are writing all these things
to someone who is also a human. That person also have feelings.
I think
social media has given us so much independence to address our opinions that
most of the users are misusing that opportunity.
Most of the
times people are not aware of the fact that criticism and hate are two
different things. Instead they mix them.
For eg if you
don’t like the fragrance of my perfume then there are three ways of dealing
with it:
The first
way is to say that “I think this perfume has a very strong smell than the
previous one that you used to use and it was much better” then this is
criticism where I’m not hurt and at the same time you said what you wanted to
say hence it is a win-win situation.
And the
second way is that you tell me “You smell like dead rat. You are stinking. Oh
my god, go and take a shower” that too in front of so many people. This is
hate. I want to address every hater have you lost it or what?
Social media
is such a big platform how can you say this to someone just try to empathize if
you can’t sympathize.
The third
way is to be quiet. I mean it is not necessary always to address everything you
feel. Although I m a straight forward person but this is what I think that if I
don’t like things on social media I don’t humiliate the creator instead I would
switch to something else I would just ignore that thing.
Now I want
to address every content creator as well as every single person who receives
hate on their post or videos you have two ways of dealing with it
First way is
to get affected by it and eventually ruin your day and lose confidence of
posting more videos or photos
And on the
other hand you can treat these comments or these haters the way they are
supposed to be treated and using them as brain cardio to come up with better
responses.
See I think
cyber bulliers are the ones who just randomly write shit without thinking about
the consequences of writing so.
What is to
be done is to IGNORE THEM.
Yes that’s
what I think is the best thing to be done because if someone hate you then he
/she would want to see you being sad on the contrary if they see you smile back
and be happy then after a while they will either realize and apologize or will
not repeat hurting you. Since they know that there is no point in harming you
if you are not hurt.
The problem
is cyber bullying and we discussed about it now we need to know the solution to
get over it or how to deal with it. See I think that cyber bullying depends on
your perception hence if you want to be happy and decide to not get affected by
it then follow these rules:
1) Ignorance is the main key. It’s difficult
to ignore everything still try to do that.
2) Act sensibly. Don’t think too much
about it and fall in depression.
3) Let them say. What you can do is just
report and block that person.
4) If it is something very personal
about that is been leaked then it might come under criminal cyber bullying. So try
to contact the cyber cell and go legally. You will definitely get justice.
5) If you are too young then don’t think
to deal with it alone instead get help by your parents. Don’t be afraid of them
just try to be friends with them and believe me on this they will help you.
I hope these
points will work if something is to be added then comment it below and don’t
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Let’s be a
responsible individual and make our internet much safer.
"If something is going wrong
Never let it go
Instead voice your opinion against it"
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